The expression "looking down your
nose" was and is an American idiom used with reference to
looking upon someone with
condescension, dishonorably,
with a degree of contempt. It is felt that the other
person is beneath you,
undeserving of your status and dignity.
That is the subject of this article.
James
says:
"My
brethren, do not hold the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Lord of
glory, with partiality. For if there should come into your assembly
a man with gold rings, in fine apparel, and there should also come in
a poor man in filthy clothes, and you pay attention to the one
wearing the fine clothes and say to him, 'You sit here in a good
place,' and say to the poor man, 'You stand there,' or, 'Sit here at
my footstool,' have you not shown partiality among yourselves, and
become judges with evil thoughts? Listen, my beloved brethren: Has
God not chosen the poor of this world to be rich in faith and heirs
of the kingdom which He promised to those who love Him? But you have
dishonored the poor man. Do not the rich oppress you and drag you
into the courts? Do they not blaspheme that noble name by which you
are called? If you really fulfill the royal law according to the
Scripture, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself,' you do well;
but if you show partiality, you commit sin, and are convicted by the
law as transgressors. For whoever shall keep the whole law, and yet
stumble in one point, he is guilty of all. For He who said, 'Do not
commit adultery,' also said, 'Do not murder.' Now if you do not
commit adultery, but you do murder, you have become a transgressor of
the law. So speak and so do as those who will be judged by the law
of liberty. For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown
no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment."
(James 2:1-13 NKJV)
This
is a sin I see being committed day after day out in the world. I
have been around secondary public schools for a long time and this is
a sin that runs rampant there. Kids have their cliques and often
mistreat those who do not fit in. They embarrass them, ostracize
them, and often call them names. One
must learn where he/she fits in lest they become a victim. Know
your place and stay in it.
However,
this is not confined to just teenagers. The janitors and cooks, the
aides, the secretaries, the support staff, as they call it, are not
considered as honorable as the teachers, often by the teachers. Not
by all, of course, but it is common. Then the administrators often
seem to feel a lot the same way toward the teachers.
I
suspect that just about every organization has much the same pecking
order, usually determined by position, the amount of money being
earned, and that sort of thing. The attitude conveyed is that if
only these guys and gals below me had half my drive and natural
ability, they would have done as well as I have. They are not as smart,
lack my drive, and really are not worthy of what I receive. Anyone
can do their work, but it takes a
special type of person to do mine, one who is worthy.
It
is said by those who study such things that during our Civil War many
southerners were dirt poor and had no slaves. Why then did they side
with the slave owners and support the Confederacy in the war?
The
answer was that every man needs a sense of self-worth, no matter how big a failure he may have
been in this world, as the world measures such. The slaves were the
one group that poverty-stricken white southerners could look to and feel a sense of
betterment. Without the slaves, their sense of self-worth was
nonexistent. Being at the bottom of the pile is pretty destructive
to a human being, to what he thinks of himself and about himself.
The slaves gave them worth as they saw it. They were at least better
than them, so the thinking went.
In
the country of India, they used to have the caste system, and to an
extent, it is still in existence there in a few places. The caste
system was the way society was organized so that your birth
determined what social/economic group you would be in for life. If
you were born into a low-caste family it meant you would remain there
all your life doing menial labor for low wages. You did not marry or
socialize outside your caste. This is the way it was for the slaves
in the pre-Civil War South.
The
thought comes to me that we are a lot like that here in America, in
some respects, even today. It is not likely you will see a janitor or
clerk, for example, visiting and socializing with an executive in
their home. Teachers and school
cooks do not get together and
visit in each other's homes, but it is that way pretty much all across
our society.
James, by inspiration, tells us this is not the way the Christian is supposed
to be. We are to treat each other honorably and show no respect of
persons.
I
would like to go back now and take a look at parts of the text quoted
from James. Verse 1 teaches us clearly that there is to be no partiality
among us. It is a command. The ESV says, "show no partiality,"
and that sums up the command. However, I ask the question whether this is a
one-way street?
Some
years back, my wife and I were invited to go home for dinner after
Sunday A.M. church services
with a very wealthy couple (wealthy by our standards). I found an
excuse not to go, but the truth is, I really did not want to go. This
family did not know me well enough to realize the great economic gulf that separated our two families, but I knew, and I knew where they lived, and thus the kind of money they had to have.
Did
I, the poorer party, show partiality? Looking back on it, yes, I did.
Showing partiality is a two-way street. In rare circumstances, it may
be the poorer one who proves to be guilty.
But,
while the text from James is using economic well-being as an example,
do you believe the command is limited to monetary matters? Have
people never shown partiality by race, sex, age, looks, social
skills, or the lack thereof?
Kids
are often embarrassed by their parents and sometimes would like to hide
them. Why? Maybe they are older and out of touch, maybe they lack
the social skills the new age demands, or they are poor, maybe they
are ashamed of their parents for the kind of work they do, whatever.
Is this sin? Is this showing partiality? So, there is more to partiality than first meets the eye.
Then
there is verse 4, where James says of us, if we show partiality, have we
not "become judges with evil thoughts?" Two thoughts come
to mind as we read this. (1) Who made me or you a judge? How is it
that I think so highly of myself as to consider myself worthy of
being a judge of others? Is there not some arrogance tied up in
that?
Paul
tells us, "For who makes you differ from another? And what do
you have that you did not receive? Now if you did indeed receive it,
why do you glory as if you had not received it?" (1 Cor. 4:7
NKJV) Most questions that are asked seek an answer, and we try to
answer if directed at us. These questions bring us to silence. What
can we say in response?
What
do you have that you did not receive from God? Was it your looks,
your intelligence, your ability, your good health? What was it you
have that you did not receive, that you got on your own, that sets you
apart from other men? If you have made great achievements, could you
have done it without these natural gifts from God?
Some
have great natural intelligence and can go through the finest
colleges and make lots of money. Who gave this ability to them? How
does a gift from God merit superiority in one's thinking?
Who
gives great natural athletic ability or singing ability that leads
one to fame and fortune? Who gives beauty? Who gives the health
that allows one to work and achieve? Without God on your side and
giving you gifts, you, nor I, nor any other is able to achieve anything.
Did
you ever think that even if you were right in thinking you had some
superior gifts from God, that is all the more reason for grace in your
life toward others? It is all the more reason for you to be their
servant in the sense that you are able to help them, the stronger
helping the weaker. When we have the attitude that every man is my
brother and every woman my sister, and I am going to help all I can, then we cease to judge and begin to love.
God
says to the rich, "Let them do good, that they be rich in good
works, ready to give, willing to share." (1 Tim. 6:18 NKJV) In
the verse just before this, he, through Paul, speaks much like James
in the passage we are studying, for he says "command those who
are rich … not to be haughty." (1 Tim. 6:17 NKJV)
I
also want to look at the second part of verse 4 from our text, where
Paul says that if we show partiality, we become judges with evil thoughts.
What kind of "evil thoughts?" First of all, the Bible
teaches that evil thoughts themselves are sin.
Hear
Jesus, "But those things which proceed out of the mouth come
from the heart, and they defile a man. For out of the heart proceed
evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false
witness, blasphemies. These are the things which defile a man."
(Matt. 15:18-20 NKJV)
We
are not told exactly what the evil thoughts of James 4:7 are, but we
all pretty much know. It is I am better than this guy, what a loser.
It is the attitude of the Pharisee who went up to pray and was
thanking God that he was not like the other man there, the tax collector.
But, Jesus says, "I tell you, this man (the tax collector--DS)
went down to his house justified rather than the other (the
Pharisee--DS); for everyone who exalts himself will be abased, and he
who humbles himself will be exalted." (Luke 18:14 NKJV)
When
I begin to judge the other guy, I am automatically exalting myself
above him. In Jesus' eyes, we are all sinners. How is it we think
one sinner worthy of death is better than another sinner worthy of
death?
I
recently read a sermon that was well worth my time. The thesis of
the sermon was that God looks at world history and/or national
history differently than man does. Our history books are full of
famous men's names. They are famous because of their exploits in politics,
business, war, etc. We say they have been great successes in life.
We
suspect God's view of history is vastly different based on his word.
Most of the names of people in our history books were not Christians.
Their names are not going to be found in God's book of life, his
history book, so to speak. God's great men and women of history will
be, at least for the most part, people who were not well known in
this life, simple God-fearing people who went about serving God and
others in ordinary daily life. I had never thought about it this
way. I am convinced the man who
wrote the sermon had it right.
God's
word is too plain to deny that with him, the greatest person is not
the one lording it over the other but the one who is serving.
Remember when James and John came to Jesus desiring to sit one on his
right hand and the other on his left hand in his glory?
Jesus said in part, "You know that
those who are considered rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them,
and their great ones exercise authority over them. Yet it shall not
be so among you; but whoever desires to become great among you shall
be your servant. And whoever of you desires to be first shall be
slave of all." (Mark 10:42-43 NKJV)
We
are not really being a servant when we desire the lordship, and that
is what we do in heart when we show partiality over others as though
we are better. James says it is sin, "if you show partiality,
you commit sin." (James 2:9 NKJV)
Do
we realize that when we show respect of persons in a way that
the person becomes aware of it, we have also become a thief? James
says in chapter 2, verse 6, "You have dishonored the poor man."
(NKJV) When we dishonor a man or woman, we are robbing them of their
self-respect and dignity, and this makes us one of the worst thieves
of all. You can take a man's money, but when you take his self-respect, what does he have left?
In
verses 8 and 9, James contrasts loving a person with showing
partiality. When we show partiality, it shows that we do not love the one
whom we are mistreating. James quotes scripture saying, "'You
shall love your neighbor as yourself,'" (James 2:8 NKJV) and
says this is the "royal law according to the Scripture."
(James 2:8 NKJV) How can you love a man whom you judge
to be of lesser worth or value?
Sin is a transgression of the law (1 John 3:4 KJV). When we show
partiality, we transgress the royal law. We fail to love. We sin.
Verse
13 then logically follows, "For judgment is without mercy to the
one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment."
(NKJV) A merciful man is the man who loves his neighbor as himself.
His desire is to help. If indeed there is one less fortunate than
oneself, the attitude needs to be I
want to help, how can I help?
It
would be good if we could all burn into our memories and, more
importantly, into our hearts the scripture, "judgment is without
mercy to the one who has shown no mercy." (James 2:13 NKJV) A
merciful man is not a man who has an attitude of partiality. As he
is merciful and not judgmental, he will be shown mercy.
I
want to make one final point before closing. There is no partiality
with God. Peter spoke of this in Acts 10:34 when he said, "In
truth I perceive that God shows no partiality." (NKJV) This he
spoke concerning God's willingness to save all men of whatever race
or background.
But
as God is not partial in who he will save neither is he partial in
whom he will condemn for Paul says in Rom. 2:11-12, "For there
is no partiality with God. For as many as have sinned without law
will also perish without law, and as many as have sinned in the law
will be judged by the law." (NKJV)
Again
in Col. 3:25, "But he who does wrong will be repaid for the
wrong which he has done, and there is no partiality." (NKJV)
Peter
says to us, "And if you call on the Father, who without
partiality judges according to each one's work, conduct yourselves
throughout the time of your sojourning here in fear." (1 Peter
1:17 NKJV)
I
suspect way too many of us think that God is going to treat us a
little differently than others; my character
and circumstances are such as to
merit special consideration. I wonder if we think in the back of our
mind that I am a little more deserving than some others, and so will
be treated differently. If so, we are delusional.
With
me, one of the most frightening passages in the Bible is this one
from Paul in 2 Thess. 1:7-9, "And
to give you who are troubled rest with us when the Lord Jesus is
revealed from heaven with His mighty angels, in flaming fire taking
vengeance on those who do not know God, and on those who do not obey
the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ. These shall be punished with
everlasting destruction from the presence of the Lord and from the
glory of His power." (NKJV)
God
is no respecter of persons. One has either believed and obeyed the
gospel, or he has not. God is either a liar or he is not. The only
hope so many have is that God is a liar, that it is all a lie. But
there is no partiality with God, nor can God lie. Is there no
fear of God within us? I can find plenty of Old Testament examples
of people who did not fear or obey God. Do we want to be like them?
So,
in this study, we have looked at showing partiality from man's side
and shown it to be sin. But we have also looked at the subject from
God's side and seen that there is no partiality with him. He will gladly
save us no matter who we are if we will believe and obey, but without
showing partiality, he will condemn us if we do not believe and obey.
The way we live in our treatment of others is our choice. God also
allows us to choose how we will treat him. The choice is ours, and
that goes as much for the writer as the reader of this article.
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